Rock-Paper-Scissors. It's a hand game two people play for the same outcome similar to coin flipping, drawing straws, or throwing dice.
When I was growing up in Bangkok, Thailand back in the 1960s, my first experience with what I later learned was Rock-Paper-Scissors was in the first school I ever attended called, at that time, Holy Redeemer School located off of Soi Ruam Rudee which was then a small extension off of Wireless Road or Thanon Witthayu. Holy Redeemer School, now called Ruamrudee International School, was then a Catholic school which accepted English-speaking as well as Thai-speaking students. The English speaking students had a separate area for learning from the Thais. But when it came to physical education and games, and recess and lunch periods, we were all basically thrown together. And being kids, we all got a long.
Being now part of the Thai culture and being as young as I was, I naturally learned the ways of the Thais, and eventually picked up some Thai expressions. One of these expressions came in the form of preliminary choosing of sides in certain games at school or with the neighborhood Thai kids. If there were more than two people in a game that needed side choosing, we all gathered around in a circle -- three or more of us Thai and English-speaking alike, and facing each other, would place our right hand inside the circle along with the hands of everyone else participating. We'd then begin frantically waving them back and forth all chanting, "TEE Toe Pah TOO KAI Shy Auk!" At the moment the word "Auk" was uttered our hands would either turned down or turn up. This was how we chose sides.
If there were only two of us, we'd play the Rock-Paper-Scissors game; only, we didn't call out "Rock, Paper, Scissors", we called out "Pow Wing CHUNG!" Chung would be the word that would bring our choice of hand gestures out in the form of the tight fist, the two pointed fingers, or the entire outstretched palm, which, of course, look like a rock, a pair of scissors, or a piece of paper.
My sister, Mary, and I grew up together in this culture, and for the first four years of my schooling at the Holy Redeemer School, we immersed ourselves in the Thai ways. And for these first four years at the school, I played these two Thai side choosing games. It was the most natural thing to do along with playing with the Thai neighborhood kids.
In 1964, I was pulled out of Holy Redeemer School and was placed in the International School of Bangkok, then located on 36 Sukumvit Soi 15. This International School of Bangkok, or ISB, catered primarily to English speaking students, mostly American. Thai citizens were not eligible to register at ISB. Suddenly, there was no more Pow Wing Chung or Tee Toe Pah Too Kai Shy Auk. I felt like something had been taken away from me. But I also felt like I had somehow come home. This would become my first real indoctrination into the American culture in a foreign country.
I learned fast to stop these expressions at this school. Kids can be cruel. But they have stayed with me until today.
When I see someone calling, "Rock, Paper Scissors", I still hear "Pow Wing Chung!"
Monday, January 7, 2013
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Scaraboo
Scarabs. Rhymes with Arabs. But back in 1960 little did I know that this little beetle would turn out to be the icon of my passion.

In 1960, when we moved to Bangkok, Thailand from Madrid, Spain, the world seemed to offer abundance of excitement. I nestled into this culture as if it were my own. I was just starting to come alive in my own consciousness as I marveled at life around me.
One of the things that my family would do was to go to the local Weekend Flea Market out in the middle of Bangkok proper. It was an open air flea market that covered an entire football or larger size park. At that age, everything seemed gigantic. Some parts of that flea market were covered in tents, others were simply covered with the overhanging branches of large trees. There, I remember strolling around hand-in-hand with my parents taking in all the smells of the live caged animals, the chatter of a foreign language, and the aromas of grilled outdoor food.
The first time I saw the iridescent green and blue shiny wings of the Thai Jewel Beetle was at one of these rare outings at the Weekend Flea Market. I was drawn to the allure of these moving jewels as they crawled about all over each other in a large box. The man in charge of this box reached down and picked one up. With the other hand, he took a black string and tied it around the large bug between its thorax and abdomen and then let the bug go. As he let go this fascinating large shiny moving bead, it spread its wings and began flying around, still attached to the string in which this man held in his hand. The man grinned at us with a toothless grin. That day, my father bought each one of us a Thai Jewel Beetle. It was on that day that I began a life-long romance with the beetle.
By the time I was ten, I had accumulated about a dozen of these beauties which I housed in a large fish tank. I cared for them deeply and hiked about a quarter of a mile from our house on Soi Sawadii (Soi 31) across a large field to gather the small leaves from a remote bush that were the diet of these flying emeralds. And then I would hike back carrying the leafy food for my lovely bugs.


In 1965, we moved to Soi Seang Mukda (Soi 43), and it was before the move that I decided to let these beauties go free. I gathered up each beetle, put them all in a brown paper sack, and set off across that field toward the security of that leafy bush that was their diet. There, I set each one of them free happily knowing that within their reach, there was plenty of food. Except for the rare occasion back at the house when they somehow rolled onto their backs and made a loud buzzing noise with their wings trying to right themselves, to which I would let out a loud blood curdling scream, they were beautiful in the sunlight as I watched them crawl away to freedom.



The Scarab Dung Beetle was once worshiped by ancient Egyptians. They saw the sun roll across the sky just as the Scarab rolls a ball of dung across the ground. To the ancient Egyptians, both the sun and the ball of dung, in similar respects, gave life to the world as they saw it. It is yet one more poetic reverence to the sanctity of life of which I can only guess the ancient Egyptians having.
I've always lived in awe of the beetle. A survivor of millions of years, it continues to adapt and flourish, with more species being discovered every day. It's a wonderful bug. So, it is of no coincidence that, in coming full circle with it from my first encounter of this hearty dazzling insect back in Bangkok to the present more revered one of the Egyptians, I've adopted it as my dance academy logo. It has played and continues to play a significant part in my life, representing my spirit and my livelihood both in my restaurant and in my dance academy.

I have learned much from this amazing bug.
2013 and the Al-Masri Extensions




It's been a long journey from 1999 to now, with one huge deviation back in 2005 to 2007 which pushed me off a cliff out of which I've been climbing since 2007. But I'm looking at a clear horizon and a starlit night sky with clarity and conviction. NOW is my time.
So, take time to stop in Al-Masri Egyptian Restaurant, order some Bitchin' Baklava, watch my Sausan Academy of Egyptian Dance graduates perform, and then, when it's published, go out and buy my Celebrating on a Scarab book. Instructional dance videos on the Egyptian Dance Code® to come as well as a cook book or my restaurant's recipes.
Have a wonderful and prosperous New Year.
Hope to see you all soon at Al-Masri or under one of its extensions!
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